Ge 3:7 And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig-leaves together, and made themselves aprons.
Ge 3:8 And they heard the voice of Jehovah God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of Jehovah God amongst the trees of the garden.
Ge 3:9 And Jehovah God called unto the man, and said unto him, where art thou?
If you are familiar with Genesis 3 you will recall it is the story of man’s sin in the Garden of Eden. Satan first deceived Eve and she took the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil and then she gave some to Adam and he did eat as so began the fall of man. The first thing that Adam and Eve did was make themselves aprons of fig leaves to cover themselves with because they were naked. Then in verse 8 we find that they hid themselves from the presence of God because of their nakedness. Then God called unto the man and asked an odd question. It would be odd indeed if God did not know where he was because God is everywhere present. But if God knew where Adam was then why did he ask the question of where are you? God certainly knew where he was but Adam didn’t know where he was. Sure he knew his location within the garden but he didn’t know where he was in relation to the Lord. This was unfamiliar territory, not knowing where he stood with the Lord.
I can’t think of anything more unsettling than knowing that you just blew a great relationship, especially if that other one is God. You know you were wrong in your choice but the uncertainty of how that choice will affect future relationships leaves you with a sense of impending peril. You have already attempted to fix it but your best effort is just fig leaves and doesn’t fix anything. Your pain is in knowing how much you have hurt the other party as well as your disappointment in yourself. Your shame deepens and you just can’t bring yourself to admit that you were even capable of such an act, let alone take full responsibility for your actions. Such is the predicament of Adam.
Your next response is critical. You must decide what response is appropriate. Do you trust the other party enough to face them with the truth. Excuses, blame or self justification will only make matters worse. What qualities do they have that attracted you to them to start with? Do you believe that their value of you will be worth saving or will the fear of rejection win? What evidence do you have that tells you that the best thing is to face it head on and accept the outcome and learn from it. Note that God had come seeking Adam and was not reactive to what He already knew, but was willing to give Adam the opportunity to now make a right choice. A right heart says that I at least owe him the truth and extend to him the opportunity to advance the relationship in spite of the setback.
Resolution will require courage forgiveness, truth, ownership of our actions, trust and love to produce change. Your victory will depend on the measure of these elements being present in you. Do you have the fiber to turn a failure into an opportunity to grow.