Our Conversation

2 Corinthians  1:12 For our rejoicing is this, the testimony of our conscience, that in simplicity and godly sincerity, not with fleshly wisdom, but by the grace of God, we have had our conversation in the world, and more abundantly to you-ward.

The word “conversation” is a word that has undergone change in meaning since it was originally written.  When the Bible was translated into English, the word was used to express the sum of what was done, what was said, and all of the interaction of the experience.  Today the term has been limited to only what was said so that if you read the passage as only what was said, you do not get the full of the meaning.

The above verse is one of those examples that make the understanding of the verse more difficult.  The apostle Paul is writing to the Church at Corinth, which he had established on his second missionary journey.  Later he wrote to this church in response to several important issues that they had asked him about.  Now he is writing a second letter to encourage the church and to further clarify their doctrine.

He uses the example of his own experience to clarify how a christian is to conduct themselves in their lives.  He points out that God is the one who has delivered them in the past and he is the one who is working in the present and even further, He is the one in whom Paul has placed his confidence in, to be delivered in the future.  (verse 10)

In verse 11 we see Paul pointing out that the Corinthians were also a part of Paul’s ministry in praying for them.  The Christian  walk is not a lone individual shinning like the sun, but a corroborative effort by all Christians that cause a celebration by everyone.

Now he points to his own rejoicing by saying that his own walk was one of simply focusing on God and following Him.  He point out that it was not one of “fleshly wisdom” that is present in the old nature but one of faith that follows the Spirit of God and Scriptures.  Then he makes the point that it is the grace of God that enables him to be successful in the world and especially with the Corinthians.

So many times, it is not the wonderful oratory that convinces and convicts, but it is the small things that God uses to reveal the consistency of the message.  Paul is thankful that he was dependent upon God working and not on his own wisdom.  They were the proof of God’s working.  We must place our faith in Him and not in ourselves.

Love In 4 Directions

I am sure that many of you already know about the various meanings of the word Love, in the Bible.  There is ‘eros‘ which is the physical or lustful attraction; there is the ‘phileo‘ love which is brotherly love such as a parent for a child; and there is ‘agape’ love which is the love of God that is supernatural.  Our focus today is not on what kind of love but on the agape love that is to find a home in our heart and finds it’s expression in all directions.

First, we are to Love God back with the same love that He loves us.  That means that we have no other gods that we hold in comparison to Him.  He alone is God and there is none other like Him.  Until we get to know Him we do not love Him.  The more we get to know Him, the more capable we are to love Him, for God is Love.

The next area of our love that must be developed is to love one another.  That is to love those of your family and those to whom you identify such as your church family.  This requires some stretching and maturing.  Sometimes we forget that our love for one another is not based on how we feel about the other person.  It is not based on what they do for you but on their value which is not always apparent.  Sometimes their value will not become apparent for a long time but love can’t wait till then.  They need to be loved whether or not their value has appeared.  The world will know we are Christians by our love.  Love does what is best, not what is convenient, or easiest or even by what is desired.  It is the expression of what erupts out of the heart from our concerns and understanding of the others needs.

The third direction of our love is focused toward our neighbors.  That is those to whom we have contact in our everyday living.  It includes those who cut in front of you in traffic, your fellow employees, the beggar, the down and out as well as the up and out and even your business acquaintances.  You are to love them and seek for their good.  This will take even more growing to develop a love that is ever a blessing.  Some people are not easy to love.  The negative, the critical, the depressed, the gossip, the one who never stops talking, the gossip, and on and on it goes.  These people are all hurting and need your love.  They come from all sorts of backgrounds and bad situations yet God loves them and we are to love them with His love, too.  We have to learn to live with each other yes, but it is even more important to learn to love each other.  This love will cover a multitude of sins.

Finally, we are to love our enemies.  They are the ones who are not fair or merciful.  They attack us and all we stand for.  Sometimes they are from outside our world and come at us suddenly and without cause.  Sometimes they are close to us and hurt us the deepest.  Sometimes they are cruel and sometimes they are sly.  It doesn’t matter what they attempt but what does matter is the attitude that you express when they do.  They are expecting a fight but they are not expecting your love.  These are the ones who have the least love in their lives.  They have probably endured the worst treatment, have been taught the least, had the worst examples and come from the most dysfunctional families.  They can only be won by love.  To that they will respond.  Not at first but they can be won if your love is real.  They will cost you the most and they are the hardest to convince but they are some of the most loyal and dedicated of all.  The apostle Paul comes to mind as a great example.

God is not looking to punish us but to redeem us.  He paid the ultimate price so that we might have eternal life.  To God, we are each worth more than the entirety of this world.  There are a number of tools that God will use to reach the isolated and unloved, but the greatest of them is Love.  Love is God’s chosen means of reaching the hearts of men.  So how is your love growing?  When you are loving, you are expressing the very nature of God.


Matthew 6:14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:

2Corinthians 2:7 So that contrariwise ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow.

1John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Forgiveness is a concept that is often misunderstood and has therefore not brought the peace and relief that was intended.  We hear phrases like “Forgive and Forget” or “God will forgive us because He loves us”.  Though these type of phrases are well intended, they do not properly represent the truth about forgiveness.  You do not have the power to just forget.  You will still remember long after forgiveness has been given.  Forgiveness does not wipe the memory, but it justifies the memory.  Further, God’s forgiveness is not based on his pity or compassion for us but it is based on the death of His Son, Jesus Christ.  If we reject His Son and His work on the cross, we also reject His forgiveness and we remain condemned.

Forgiveness is not excusing the trespass but accepting the cost of the trespass for yourself.  Forgiveness is not discounting the trespass as though it doesn’t matter for it does matter.  Forgiveness is not overlooking the trespass for the barrier it has brought will continue to grow until it is addressed with forgiveness.  Forgiveness is understood as ‘giving forth’  or giving to the extent of the need.  Forgiving will cost you something.  It not only hurts but also requires something from you that is beyond your human ability.  To forgive requires that you go to God to receive the grace and mercy that is required by the offence.  It is not a natural thing but is a supernatural response of the Holy Spirit to reach the heart of the offender and to reconcile man to God and man with man.

When we shut up our forgiveness several things happen.  First there is a conflict between you and God.   To refuse to forgive is a slap in God’s face for what He has done for you.  Second, your concern for the offender should be cause enough for you to forgive him.  To withhold forgiveness reveals a lack of love for your fellow man as well as a lack of faith in God.  Third, when we withhold forgiveness it causes a barrier for us in our growth and we become bitter and the longer it goes on, the more bitter we become.  Further, it hinders our spiritual life is every way and we open ourselves up to the tricks of the Devil.  There is every reason for us to forgive as it exposes God who lives in us, to the world, it improves our relationships and people skills and equally importantly, it not only improves our disposition and attitude but also settles the war inside of us, restores our joy and peace and builds us in multiple ways.  We are all on a journey to our eternal home so lets enjoy the trip.

Why Did Jesus Go To The Cross?

Galatians 1:4 Who gave himself for our sins, that he might deliver us from this present evil world, according to the will of God and our Father:

Colossians 1:22 In the body of his flesh through death, to present you holy and unblameable and unreproveable in his sight:

Titus 2:14 Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.

These are not the only verses that answer this question but they do represent the answer.  The answer is like the hand, it branches out into multiple directions but is still a part of the hand.  Galatians 1:4 gives us the overarching purpose and that is that we might be delivered from this present evil world.  This deliverance is accomplished in three stages.  Stage 1 (called Regeneration) is the isolation of the human spirit from sin.  Since we are incapable of lifting ourselves out of sins grasp, the Lord accomplishes this by placing the Holy Spirit within the person and permanently seals him as a child of God.  At this point, God has committed to bring the powers of heaven to bear on the completion of His child.  Yes, I am aware that the child of God will still act like the world because he is  not yet finished.  That is where stage 2 begins.

Stage 2 is the Sanctification (or setting apart) of the soul.  This takes the remainder of the person’s life here on earth.  It is in this stage that we learn what it means to walk by faith, and are transformed into the character and likeness of God.  We discover how right God is in every area of our life.  Our thinking is changed, our understanding is transformed, our actions take on a new purpose and our will is subdued.  Grace defines the maturity of the child of God, more and more.

1John 3:2 Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is.

Philippians 3:21 Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.

Stage 3 is our Glorification and addresses our body.  To be able to live in eternity with God we will need a spiritual body for this corruptible body cannot endure in His presence so we will be given a supernatural body like that of the Lord Jesus’ body that will never decay.   Only then is the separation from sin completed.  This is the work of the Lord as stated in Ephessians 2:10.  We were created in Christ Jesus, we are transformed by Jesus and we are completed like Jesus, that we might be presented holy and unblameable and unreproveable in his sight:  That is why Jesus endured the cross.  The price was not to be compared with the value of God’s children.

Just Burning Off The Chaff

1Peter 1:5 Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.  6 Wherein ye greatly rejoice, though now for a season, if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations:  7 That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ

Things are starting to get back to normal around here.  My wife took the car out by herself, for the first time today.  She is starting to reclaim her place in the kitchen and can even open a can without help.  I apologize for not posting more during this time but it is one of those things that we get to do on occasion when the need arises.

Between having to do double duty with the household chores, we have also had our great grandson here for several days in a row and he requires constant attention.  He thinks that God called me to be his playmate and entertainer.  It is interesting that in our bible studies recently we have been looking at how God shapes and forms us in all of our interruptions and distractions.  Now my wife hears me say, “just burning the chaft off” when someone cuts in front of me or when I am focused on something and I get interrupted, or when things just doesn’t go the way I think they should.

I already knew that I am not perfect – but I wasn’t aware of just how much imperfection there remains; even after 50 years in the ministry and walking with the Lord.  Have you noticed how that life’s problems come at an inopportune time?  They don’t come when you are not in a hurry, or when you have leisure time.  They come when you are stressed like a guitar string.  By the way, a guitar string only has quality sound when it is stressed the right amount.  Otherwise, it is out of tune.  Perhaps the Lord is just tuning us up for His performance.  And another thing, have you noticed that these situations require far more than you can give at that moment.  You are asked to do something when your hands are full, or asked to look at something while you are driving, or you are obeying the law and you are cut off or someone suddenly stops right in front of you, etc.  And finally, have you noticed that you cannot win?  No matter what course you take, someone will be shorted or neglected or offended.

I suspect that the Lord is watching and listening and waiting to see us respond as He did when He walked here on Earth.  Remember the story of the woman caught in the very act of adultery?  They brought her to Jesus and said that the law required her to be stoned but what do you say?  If He said no, then He would disobey the law, If He said yes, then he would be uncaring.  He did neither but keeled down and wrote in the sand.  When He was further pressed for an answer, He said, he that is without sin cast the first stone.  Another time Jesus was asked whether or not it was right to pay taxes?  He said, show me a coin and then asked whose inscription was on it?  They replied, Caesar’s,  to which He replied, render unto Caesar the things that are Caesar’s and unto God, the things that are God’s.  This kind of wisdom comes only from God.  We do not possess it but it is supplied upon our exercise of faith in Him.

Today is tuning the instruments and choir rehearsal.  We are just beginning to understand what that will be like.  Can’t you just picture it?  Everyone is assembled in Heaven and earth, all is quiet and then it begins.  First there is the sound of a trumpet, then a loud shout, and then it begins. . .   I am so looking forward to the presentation of the Grand Finale when the Lord has us all tuned up and heaven waits with batted breath  to hear the sound of the redeemed, as we praise the Lord for all He has done.

Word Study – I AM

The first account that we have of God identifying Himself is in Exodus 3:14 where He answers Moses’ question of “Whom shall I say sent me?”  God’s response was, Exodus 3:14 And God said unto Moses, I AM THAT I AM: and he said, Thus shalt thou say unto the children of Israel, I AM hath sent me unto you.  That answer sounds strange to us.  What kind of a name is I AM?  It doesn’t sound like a name but it does sound like a description which it really is.  God isn’t known by a name but by His attributes.  We use names to distinguish between others with the same attributes.  But there is no other with the same attributes as God.  There is none like Him so He is not identified by a name but by His attributes which there is none other like Him.

Choosing to identify Himself to Moses and the Hebrews, He basically said, ‘the one who is that has always been, and always will be the same is the one who is sending you.”  But it is even more clear when you realize that in all three tense, the same word for the self existent eternal God is only in the present tense.  In other words, there is no such thing as time ito God.  He is present in the past, present, as well as the future.  It is a hard concept to get your mind around but it does reveal a lot about The Eternal God who is unchanging.

This theme is picked up by Jesus in the Gospel Of John.  Jesus uses the phrase 23 times in reference to Himself being the self existing God by the use of the (ego eimi) I AM reference.  He also claimed to be the Messiah in John 4:26.  The Jews understood His claim in John 5:17-18 and in John 10:36 as a claim of deity in His declaration to be the Son of God.  In John 5:39 He stated that the scriptures testified of Him.  In John 10:30 He said He and His Father are one.  He further said that the Comforter (Holy Spirit) would testify of Him.  When He was arrested the soldiers went backwards and fell to the ground when He said I AM he.  Some of the more memorable descriptions include:

  • I AM the bread of Life
  • I AM the light of the world.
  • I AM the door of the sheep
  • I AM the good shepherd
  • I AM the resurrection and the life.
  • I AM the way, the truth, and the life
  • I AM the true vine

There is no misunderstanding who Jesus believed He is.  He made it clear that He is the Messiah, God in the flesh, God the Son.  The question that remains is do you believe it.  All of your eternity hangs on your answer.  He told Nicodemus, “You MUST be born again”  You will either become a witness of this truth or you will fight this truth.  Who do you say the son of man is?



Word Study – Eternal life

Have you ever considered what the phrase “Eternal Life” really means?  For years, I thought that it meant that when I became a christian that from that point on I would never die.  You can imagine my surprise when I discovered that was not exactly what it means.  The word “Eternal” literally means without end.  Think with me for a moment about my idea of eternal life. It begins with a point or end so if it has an end point then it is not eternal.  It does not mean only from now on but it also goes infinitely in every other direction as well.  Our finite minds have a great difficulty grasping the infinite.  We immediately begin to imposed our finite concepts into the equation and it changes the meaning.

We must consider the concept in light of the infinite God.  He never had a beginning and has no end.  He is inexhaustible in all things. Colossians 1:17 And he is before all things, and by him all things consist.  There is no knowledge that he does not have.  There is no power greater than His.  There is no place He is not present.  There is no life that does not come from Him, etc.  He is The Almighty God.  He is not like us finite, limited beings.  We think of Him as being like us but in reality we do not compare to Him.  Exodus 15:11 Who is like unto thee, O LORD, among the gods? who is like thee, glorious in holiness, fearful in praises, doing wonders?  (This verse does not imply that there are other gods, but to the things we humans worship as a god.)  God is so great that nothing we can imagine is comparable to Him.

Have you considered that everything that Satan is can offer you is temporal, that is of this world and temporary.  That is because he is a created being and not on the same plane as God.  It is not the picture of two equals fighting to see who will win, but one of two choices for us to choose to follow.  Satan is not an equal to God and his end is certain.  God, on the other hand, is eternal or without end.  Because we cannot fathom the whole of God, we cannot fathom the extent of “Eternal Life”.  We trace our life as beginning at birth, but that was when we were formed, not created.  We were created before God created the world.  Mark 10:6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.  We were identified and detailed from the very beginning of the plan of creation.

Ephesians 1:4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love: God elected those who made their choice of Him to be His children or offspring.

Matthew 25:34 Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:  

Our promise of eternal life goes far beyond our concepts of from now on to include from forever more to forever more.  We were God’s plan from the beginning and to accomplish that plan He created time and space.  We are not a product of creation but creation was established for us, like the womb is a place to develop our body before we begin our “life here on earth”  The difference is that the life God has for us is eternal.

This is possible because we are in Jesus who is eternal.  He exchanges his eternal righteous life for our temporal life of sin.  It is received by our believing (trusting, relying, obeying, following) Him through life.

News Update 7.3.18

Today my wife and I went to the doctor to get the latest on her broken arm.  The good news is that she is not scheduled for any surgery.  She was taken out of the splint and put into a cast.  The splint was full to the upper arm and the cast is only on the hand,wrist and lower arm, giving her a lot more mobility.  She will be required to do some therapy for the next week or two and can discard the sling in a week or so.

So far, she has not been able to use her right arm at all and I have had to do a lot of her chores around the house, driving, etc.  It has been devastating to my schedule and routine, but she is worth it, and more.  You should have seen her coaching me to cook spaghetti and meat balls.  I didn’t do a very good job but we got through it and I have an even greater appreciation for her contribution to our marriage.  It has been good for me, though I hope it will never become necessary on a permanent basis.

I am thankful for those of you who have been praying for her.  She is doing well and even pulled a prank on me (which she almost never does).  She goes to bed before I do as I am in my study till late.  As I came into the bedroom as quiet as I could, so as to not wake her, and slipped into the bathroom,and was closing the door carefully, so that the light wouldn’t wake her, she said BOO!, and touched me from behind.  I didn’t know that she had gotten up and was right behind me in the bathroom and I thought she was asleep in bed.  I jumped with a start, which I never do, and turned to find her laughing at me.  You have to understand that it is rare that she ever gits me that way.

This afternoon I have a little time so I am doing a quick post about details.  I am working on my message for the upcoming Senior Adult  Bible Conference on August  5-8. I will be speaking on the 8th at 10:00 AM.  I will be the next to last speaker for the conference.  This will be the third year that I have been given the honor to speak at the conference.  I always count it an honor to get to preach, and since I am not now the pastor of a church, I don’t get to preach that often so I am really looking forward to it.

Just a couple notes on the upcoming China mission trip.  We will be leaving here on October 24 for a 10 day trip.  I will be going to Beijing, China to meet my friend and he will then be my escort to wherever else we go.  One stop we will make is Tienanmen Square and I don’t know where else at this time.  Because of the sensitivity of the Chinese government and our not wanting to raise their ire, I am going as a tourist.  This will give me insights as to how we can minister to them without putting others in danger.  I will share more of their situation when I return.  Again, I am asking for your prayers.  Not so much for my safety or even for the safety of those who I will meet, but primarily that the Lord will be pleased and honored in my going.